How to Help Aging Parents Stay In Their Home

Washington D.C

Aging parents may need more care, which may complicate their ability to live at home. Most U.S. adults age 50 and older want to stay in their current homes for as long as possible, but it may not always be safe (AARP, 2023). If you are considering modifying your parent’s home, here are a few tips to get you started!

Utilize local and state resources

Research local resources that can help with funding or other support services related to accessibility adaptations for homes with aging family members. Programs such as Home Modification Loans from FHA assist homeowners looking into remodeling their homes for an aging parent who may require extra care. Additionally, several different programs are available depending on where you live that assist with covering costs associated with making home modifications based on need and income level.  

Develop a Daily Activities Calendar

Sometimes one of the biggest challenges when caring for an elderly parent is dealing with changes in routine due to physical limitations or health issues like dementia or Alzheimer’s disease. Having a plan that outlines what activities will look like each day can alleviate some of this stress by providing structure during periods of uncertainty. A daily schedule should include medication reminders and recreation, like walks outside or visits from friends who are able and willing to help out when needed.

Hire a Caregiver

When selecting a caregiver for your aging parent, finding someone experienced in providing compassionate and quality care is important. The right fit will depend on the individual needs of your loved one. Do they need help bathing, dressing, walking, or preparing meals? Look for a caregiver with experience dealing with similar situations and who is willing to take on additional tasks as needed. It’s also essential that the chosen caregiver be trustworthy and respectful of your family member’s wishes.

Reduce the Risks of Falls

Slips and falls are a major health hazard for older adults in the US, with injury-related deaths numbering over 32,000 every year (AARP, 2023). That being said, several fall prevention tips can help your parents stay safe in their homes.

• Secure your pets

  While pets bring joy and companionship to many homes, they can pose a tripping hazard when seniors move around the house. So, having a secure area for your pet as your parent moves around the home is important.

• Change Floor Surfaces Carefully

  Changes in floor surfaces from tile to wood or carpet can create potential dangers at doorways. Keep floor surfaces consistent throughout the home to avoid sudden changes that could lead to an unexpected slip or trip. Additionally, throw rugs should be avoided as they can be especially hazardous for individuals with walkers or oxygen equipment.

• Reduce clutter and cords

  Clutter is another major source of slips and falls among seniors. So, keeping pathways clear of items such as furniture or boxes is important. Electrical cords also pose a risk of tripping as they are often difficult to see under low light levels; consider using plug-in sensor lights for additional light if needed!  

• Adding Extra Grip to Stairs

  One easy way to improve stair safety is to add extra grip. For non-carpeted stairs, you can add grip tape or a non-slip tread mat that works on both carpeted and non-carpeted stairs. This will help prevent slips and falls while going up or down the stairs.  

• Stair-Assist Chair

  Another option is a stair-assist chair—also known as a stair lift or chair lift—which helps those with limited mobility move up and down stairs safely and securely. Most models have safety features like seat belts, armrests, footrests, sensors to detect obstructions, emergency stop buttons, and more. Some even have swivel seats, so you don’t need to worry about turning around when getting off at the top of the staircase or onto a landing.

• Medical Alert System

  Another important step in age-proofing your parent’s home is ensuring they can access medical care if needed. Install a medical alert system so your parent can quickly contact emergency services if necessary. Ensure they always have a list of contacts, such as family members, doctors, pharmacists, etc., that can be easily accessed in an emergency. It may also be helpful to set up a system where family members regularly check in with your parents by phone or email so that you know how they’re doing on a daily basis.

• Acknowledge your parent’s feelings

  Lastly, remember that what might look like minor steps to age-proof a home may strike your parents as something bigger. Be understanding when discussing changes with them — try not to come off as bossy or demanding — because these conversations can be difficult for everyone involved. Have empathy when discussing any changes you think need to be made around their home; this will allow for an easier transition into the new living situation. 
  

Age-proofing your parent’s home ensures their safety as they age. With careful planning and consideration of their physical and emotional needs during this transition period, you can help ensure your parents remain safe at home for years. 

References

Jayson, S. (2021, November 19). How to Make Your Home Safe for Aging Parents. AARP. Retrieved June 23, 2023, from https://www.aarp.org/caregiving/home-care/info-2019/safety-tips.html